perfectly imperfect's blog: "LIFE"

it has recently come to mind that i'm apparently a very bad judge of who people actually are. I used to pride myself in being able to look at a person and know if they are "good people". Well either i never was good at that or i was just lucky or i'm stupid. Ya know it kinda makes me feel really foolish to think that i let myself get hurt once again. Ya'd think i'd know better by now. that i'd learn by now. I honestly dont think i'll ever be truely happy...

Broken Promises I guess your word really doesn't mean anything. I guess your ego isn't as tamed as you confided. I guess the love you proclaimed for me was all lies. I'd tell you that you hurt me. That you broke my already damaged heart just a bit more. I'd tell you that your lies robbed me of my trust. That you shattered the dreams I'd finally begun believing in again. I'd tell you that you are the cause of the tears on my face. That I ache to feel you hold me and dry them. But I doubt you care.

A REAL MAN....... 1.) A REAL MAN respects his mother and places his Woman first. 2.) A REAL MAN raises his kids, not JUST out of pocket either. 3.) A REAL MAN supports his woman to develop herself. 4.) A REAL MAN doesn't worry about what others depict as a real man. Walk in his shoes first and then tell him what makes him A REAL MAN. 5.) A REAL MAN doesn't Break Promises 6.) A REAL MAN calls you beautiful, not hot, sexy, or fine as fuck. 7.) A REAL MAN loves you just as much first thing in the morning when your hair is sticking out in a million directions, you have no makeup on, and you haven't showered, shaved or brushed your teeth yet as he does when you're dressed to the nines and ready for a night out on the town. 8.) A REAL MAN CALLS U on a daily basis - NO MATTER HOW BUSY OR TIRED HE IS. 9.) A REAL MAN looks past what he's heard about you or what his friends think of you. 10.) A REAL MAN wants to spend as much time as he can with you & won't get sick of you. 11.) A REAL MAN comes over just to watch movies with you. 12.) A REAL MAN kisses you on the forehead just because. 13.) A REAL MAN doesn't tell you what he thinks you want to hear. He tells you what's real. 14.) A REAL MAN should be treated like one. 15.) A REAL MAN doesn't ask questions when you say you need something... him, sex, or money, a bed to sleep in. 16.) A REAL MAN lets others know How He Feels About his Girl. 17.) A REAL MAN doesn't play games!!!!!!!!!!! 18.) A REAL MAN doesn't leave his girl to go and hang out with his friends if he hasn't seen her in a week and then call her at 4 in the morning because he needs some loving. 19.) A REAL MAN doesn't deny you. 20.) A REAL MAN doesn't think about just sex. 21.) A REAL MAN Doesn't Judge a book by the cover. 22.) A REAL MAN wouldn't use his friendship card to get what he wants. 23.) A REAL MAN knows the difference between a REAL WOMAN and a random girl. 24.)A REAL MAN wont degrade a woman with words nor will he ever put his hand on her in anger. 25.) A REAL MAN sends you flowers Just Because. 26.) A REAL MAN doesn't walk away when his woman gets ill 27.)A REAL MAN is there when his woman needs him. 28.) A REAL MAN doesn't give you crap just because you are stressed and don't want to have sex or be all affectionate. 29.) A REAL MAN knows that there is more to life than just drinking, video games, and sex.