Ms Cris's blog: "A lot of What If's"

So why is it that some will do anything for love while others simply dispose of it? After being thrown into the dating world, it has come to my attention that many people do not cherish the idea of loving another human-being unconditionally. Some view love as being weak or unstable while others strive to find their soul mate to make them complete.

I’m not sure where I fall under the spectrum; however, I do know that I’m not one to dispose of love. I’ve come across many people whom I love but only a few that I’ve fallen in love with. With every relationship I’m in, I put in my all because I wonder if that person will be my soul mate. Call me a hopeless romantic if you will, but I live in the moment and refuse to let a good thing past. Maybe this is why I get frustrated and hurt so easily. Is it that people don’t truly understand the concept of love? That must be the case. How can a relationship be torn down by lying and cheating and still at least one of the people is left hanging on? Even though that person knows that their counterpart is not worthy of their love, they continue to hold on to what is already lost. Although love is a feeling that may be defined differently by every person, the main principles behind love are always the same. Where do people get lost?

I’m not one to get philosophical. I speak the truth. Too many relationships have been torn apart because of lies, jealousy, and misunderstanding. So before you think about lying or cheating on the one you ‘love,’ consider one thing. At the end of the day, do you know for a fact that that person will be there for you when no one else is?