This is a link for "The 10 Commandments of Speaking to a Person with a Disability", I got this when I was at a conference on Disability Etiquette when I was at a conference earlier this morning since I'm a Co-chairman of the Traverse City-Grand Traverse Co., MI. RICC and I was there with my girlfriend Kate who also volunteers with me and also an associate of ours with Disability Network which is the local Center for Independant Living, here is the link for it: http://www.diversityshop.com/store/10comvid.html
It is very informative and a petty good read forthose with children with disabilities too.