JAY's blog: "CLOSE TO MY HEART"

I gave you life,
but cannot live it for you.

I can teach you things,
but I cannot make you learn.

I can give you directions,
but I cannot be there to lead you.

I can allow you freedom,
but I cannot account for it.

I can take you to church,
but I cannot make you believe.

I can teach you right from wrong,
but I cannot always decide for you.

I can buy you beautiful clothes,
but I cannot make you beautiful inside.

I can offer you advice,
but I cannot accept it for you.

I can give you love,
but I cannot force it upon you.

I can teach you to share,
but I cannot make you unselfish.

I can teach you respect,
but I cannot force you to show honor.

I can advise you about friends,
but cannot choose them for you.

I can advise you about sex,
but I cannot keep you pure.

I can tell you the facts of life,
but I can't build your reputation.

I can tell you about drinking,
but I can't say "no" for you.

I can warn you about drugs,
but I can't prevent you from using them.

I can tell you about lofty goals,
but I can't achieve them for you.

I can teach you about kindness,
but I can't force you to be gracious.

I can warn you about sins,
but I cannot make you moral.

I can love you as a child,
but I cannot place you in God's family.

I can pray for you,
but I cannot make you walk with God.

I can teach you about Jesus,
but I cannot make Jesus your Lord.

I can tell you how to live,
but I cannot give you eternal life.

I can love you with unconditional love all of my
life . . . and I will!!!

Why can't we speak when we have so much to tell?
Why can't we write when we have so much in mind?
Why can't we sing when there's music in our heart?
Why can't we dance when there's rythm in the air?


Too many words left unspoken
Too many things left undone
Why can't it be and why can't we?
For all we know this pain deep inside
Took the gladness from our heart.


Is this the pain of missing the both of us?
Is this the reason behind it all?


Hear the agony of our heart

Longing for love and touch
Feeling lips, feeling face
Missing kisses and warm embrace.


When will the waiting ever be over?
For as long as we are apart
we can never be whole

                                                      I just want you to know
                                               That our heart is aching because

 
                                                                                  WE'RE MISSING EACH OTHER!'

Do not undermine your worth by
Comparing yourself with others.
It is because we are different
That each of us is special.

Do not set your goals by what
Other people deem important.
Only you know what is best for you.

Do not take for granted the things
Closest to your heart.
Cling to them as you would your life,
for without them, life is meaningless.

Do not let your life slip through your fingers
By living in the past nor for the future.

By living your life one day at a time,
You live all the days of your life.

Do not give up when you
Still have something to give.
Nothing is really over until the
Moment you stop trying.
It is a fragile thread that
Binds us to each other.

Do not be afraid to encounter risks.
It is by taking chances
That we learn how to be brave.

Do not shut love out of your life by
Saying it is impossible to find.
The quickest way to receive
Love is to give love;
The fastest way to lose love
Is to hold it too tightly;
In addition, the best way to keep
Love is to give it wings.

Do not dismiss your dreams.
To be without dreams
Is to be without hope;
To be without hope
Is to be without purpose.

Do not run through life
So fast that you forget
Not only where you have been,
But also where you are going.
Life is not a race,
But a journey to be savored
Each step of the way

It doesn't matter for how long the room has been dark;
For a day, or a week, or a year, or for ten thousand years.
The moment you bring in a candle; darkness vanishes like it was never there.

Similarly, it doesn't matter for how long we are stuck in a sense of our limitations.
The moment you decide to break free, nothing will stop you.

Create the light of your life.

 Never Try To Be Successful

Success is the bye-product. Excellence always creates success. So, never run after the success, let it happen automatically in the life.

 Freedom To Life

Don’t die before actual death. Live every moment to the fullest as you are going to die today night. Life is gifted to humankind to live, live & live @ happiness.

 Passion Leads To Excellence

When your hobby becomes your profession and passion becomes your profession. You will be able to lead up to excellence in the life. Satisfaction, pleasure, joy and love will be the outcome of following passion. Following your passion for years, you will surely become something one day.

 Learning Is Very Simple

Teachers do fail. Learners never fail. Learning is never complicated or difficult. Learning is always possible whatever rule you apply.

 Pressure At Head

Current education system is developing pressures on students’ head. University intelligence is useful and making some impact in the life but it cannot be at the cost of the life.

 Life Is Emotion Management Not Intelligence Optimization

Memory and regular study have definite value and it always helps you in leading a life. You are able to survive even if you can make some mark in the path of the life. With artificial intelligence, you can survive and win but you cannot prove yourself genius. Therefore, in this process genius dies in you.

 Necessity Is The Mother Of Invention

Necessity creates pressure and forces you to invent something or to make it happen or to use your potentiality.  

Simplicity is Life

Life is need base never want base. Desires have no ends. Simplicity is way of life and every  culture highly stresses on simple living and high thinking, and this is the way of life: ‘Legs down to earth and eyes looking beyond the sky’

Industrial Leadership

A master of the  institution shouldn’t show any special and very typical  leadership. He has his own principles, values and ideology, and he leads the whole institute accordingly. This is what is  commonly prevailing in our current education system  and our  current institutional leadership. In the present scenario, most of the institutes are fixed in a block or squeamish thinking.

Love Is Time & Space Free

Love is not time bound and space bound.  The pure, dedicated and sincere love   was demonstrated by all Great Lovers in the world. Love is border free, time free and space free.

Importance Of One Word In Communication

If communication dies, everything dies. Each word has impact and value in communication. One word if used wrongly or emphasized wrongly or paused at a wrong place in communication what effect it creates and how is it affected in one’s life.

Mediocrity Is Penalized

An average talent or average institute is going to suffer and has to pay maximum price in the life if they do not upgrade their living standards. To be born poor or as an average person is not a crime but to die as an average person with middle class talent is miserable and if you are unable to optimize your potentiality and die with unused potentiality then that is your shameful truth. One should not die as a mediocre. He/she has to bring out genius inside him/her and has to use his/her potentiality to the optimum level. 

A woman in a hot air balloon realized she was lost. She reduced altitude and spotted a man below. She descended a bit more and shouted, "Excuse me Sir, can you help me? I promised a friend, I would meet him an hour ago but I don't know where I am."

The man below replied,  "You're in a hot air balloon hovering approximately 30 feet above the ground. You're between 40 and 41 degrees north latitude and between 59 and 60 degrees west longitude."

''You must be an engineer," said the lady balloonist.

"I am", replied the man. 'How did you know?'

''Well", answered the lady in the balloon, "everything you told me is technically correct, but I have no idea what to make of your information, and the fact is I'm still lost. Frankly, you've not been much help to me at all. If anything, you've delayed my trip even more."

The engineer below responded, "You must be in Top Management."

''I am", replied the lady balloonist, "but, how did you  know?''
 "Well," said the Engineer,  "You don't know where you are, or where you're going. You made a promise, which you've no idea how to keep, and you expect people beneath you, to solve your problems." 

HOW WILL PEOPLE REMEMBER YOU WHEN YOU ARE GONE?

 THINK WHAT MEMORIES ARE YOU GOING TO LEAVE BEHIND?

THERE WILL BE NO MORE SURPRISES, NO MINUTES, HOURS OR DAYS…

ALL THE THINGS YOU COLLECTED, WHETHER TREASURED OR FORGOTTEN, WILL PASS TO SOMEONE ELSE………..

YOUR WEALTH, FAME AND TEMPORAL POWER WILL SHRIVEL TO IRRELEVANCE,

IT WILL NOT MATTER  WHAT YOU OWNED OR WHAT YOU WERE OWED…….

YOUR GRUDGES, RESENTMENTS , FRUSTRATIONS AND JEALOUSIES WILL FINALLY DISAPPEAR.

SO, TOO, YOUR HOPES , AMBITIONS, PLANS AND TO-DO LISTS WILL EXPIRE……

THE WINS AND LOSSES THAT ONCE SEEMED IMPORTANT WILL FADE AWAY…

IT WON’T MATTER WHERE YOU CAME FROM,

OR ON WHAT SIDE OF THE TRACKS YOU LIVED, AT THE END…….

IT WON’T MATTER WHETHER YOU WERE BEAUTIFUL OR BRILLIANT

EVEN YOUR GENDER AND SKIN COLOR WILL BE IRRELEVANT……………..

SO WHAT WILL MATTER?  HOW WILL THE VALUE  OF YOUR DAYS BE MEASURED?

WHAT WILL MATTER IS NOT WHAT YOU BOUGHT……..BUT WHAT YOU BUILT……..

NOT WHAT YOU GOT……….BUT WHAT YOU GAVE…………..

WHAT WILL MATTER IS NOT YOUR SUCCESS,  BUT YOUR SIGNIFICANCE……..

WHAT WILL MATTER IS NOT WHAT YOU LEARNED, BUT WHAT YOU TAUGHT…….

WHAT WILL MATTER IS EVERY ACT OF INTEGRITY , COMPASSION   OR SACRIFICE THAT ENRICHED,

EMPOWERED OR ENCOURAGED OTHERS TO EMULATE YOUR EXAMPLE

WHAT WILL MATTER IS NOT YOUR COMPETENCE,  BUT YOUR CHARACTER

WHAT WILL MATTER IS NOT HOW MANY PEOPLE YOU KNEW,  BUT HOW MANY WILL FEEL A

LASTING LOSS, WHEN YOU’RE GONE..

WHAT WILL MATTER IS NOT YOUR MEMORIES,  BUT THE MEMORIES THAT LIVE IN THOSE WHO LOVED YOU…..

 WHAT WILL MATTER IS HOW LONG YOU WILL BE REMEMBERED, BY WHOM AND FOR WHAT……..

LIVING A LIFE THAT MATTERS  DOESN’T HAPPEN BY ACCIDENT

IT IS NOT A MATTER OF CIRCUMSTANCE BUT OF CHOICE………….

LIVE A LIFE THAT MATTERS……………….

READY OR NOT, SOME DAY  IT WILL ALL COME TO AN END…………

Best Age is Encourage,

Best Mile is Smile,

Best Stand is Understand,

Best End is Friend,

Best Day is Today,

Have A Great Day. 

I LOVE MY FRIENDS…………

"Helping Hands are better than Praying Lips"

What GOD Wants? 

Going to church every Sunday ............. .. 
         Going to Mosque every Friday ...........
                  Going to Temple every Saturday ..........

Some Give their Hair to God

Some grow their Hair for God

But, does God really need this…..

All kinds of colors and flowers to decorate him…….

Does this make him happy…….

Does God really want this…….

This most valuable thing can be given….

TIME…..I give it to my God….

Does God want you to think about him…

Does God really want this…..

FOOD…GOLD…MONEY………..He wants it?

You are still learning in his Kinder Garten…………in the process of teaching you…..

The number of beggars is increasing….

Please think for a while……..

What GOD wants?

FOOD…FLOWERS…MONEY….TIME….?

Lets guess…….what he wants?

"Helping Hands are better than Praying Lips"

FOOD to the HUNGRY…

Because…that is what they expect from me……

More than Flowers………

Make people SMILE….

I love my Children Smiling………

MONEY……..Educate someone……..Encourage the needy……..

MONEY…..support for the livelihood of a family…..save someone’s LIFE…

TIME…Meet my children in Old Age Homes…….Waiting for an affectionate talk…

TIME…Meet my children in Orphanages……..Never make them feel………under-privileged…..

WERE YOU ABLE TO UNDERSTAND WHAT I WANT?

I HOPE……IT’S A FAIR DEAL BETWEEN MYSELF AND MY CHILDREN…..

PLEASE PASS FROM THE KINDER GARTEN ASAP………………..

Religions and Customs are not considered as bad……..but lets see to that, it doesn’t take a toll on the True purpose of our very existence in this MOTHER EARTH………

Helping Hands are always better than Praying Lips……..

On the day when you see us Old , Weak and Weary…………..Have patience and do try to understand us…

If we get dirty when eating…..and….If we cannot dress on our own……….Please bear with us and remember the times when we spent feeding you and dressing you up..

If, when we speak to you, we repeat the same things over and over again……….do not interrupt us ………..listen to us………  When you were small, we had to read to you the same story a thousand and one times until you went to sleep.

When we do not want to have a shower, neither shame us nor scold us……… Remember when we had to chase you with your thousand excuses  to get you to the shower?

When you see our ignorance  of new technologies…help us navigate our way through these world wide webs………….We taught you how to do so many things……To eat the right foods, to dress appropriately, To fight for your rights………….

When at some moments we loose the memory or the thread of our conversation………..let us have the necessary time to remember………..and if we cannot, do not become nervous………..As the most important thing is not our conversation but simply to be with you and to have you listening to us………

When our tired legs give way and do not allow us to walk without a cane………..If  ever we do not feel like eating,  do not force us. We know well when we need to and when not to eat……..Lend us your helping hand the same way we did when you tried your first faltering steps………

And when some day when we say to you that we don’t want to live anymore, that we want to die………..Do not get angry……For one day you will understand…………..Try to appreciate that  our age is not just lived but survived……………..

Someday you will realize that  despite our mistakes………….We always wanted the best for you……And we tried to prepare the way for you………….You must not feel sad, angry nor ashamed  for having us near you……Instead try to understand us and help us like we did when you were young……..

Help us to walk ….Help us to live the rest of our life with Love and Dignity………….

We will pay you with a smile and by the immense love  we have always had for you in our hearts…………

WE LOVE YOU CHILD……….FROM……….MOM & DAD…………..

LOVE THE PARENTS……………………ONE DAY YOU WILL ALSO BECOME  ONE OF THEM…………….