You know from time to time you think your life is alright and you become comfortable with everything around you and then life gives it's little uproar and slaps you in the face. I know if your reading this you have been slapped once or twice. Well what I call life would have to be what I called my wife of 15 yrs , after all of the last 5 yrs come to find out they have been nothing but a whole bunch of lies , and guy's if your reading this take it from me dont do what i did, it will back fire.First off if you suspect something go with your gut feeling and figure out what it is first then get rid of the problem before it gets up and hits you really hard in the gut, just before saying , Ha I told you you SOB, well first off if your old lady stays up all night playing games on the internet and she tells you that she is not giving out information about herself she is probably lying, mine lied for over five yrs and she started becoming real lazy then no house work being done, clothes and dishes piled up and saying to me its all my fault, well guys it not your fault it is hers and she has a friend on the internet as well as a voice in her head like they all do, and to you ladies out there that do have feelings and think about as much of her as i do I am sorry . well anyways dont stop paying the rent and other bills to try to get her to do something (LIKE GET A JOB AND HELP)she wont do it,I guess its easier to throw the blame against you , Not paying the bills and rent wont work unless you have a pretty cool landlord that will work with you after you come back with you tail between your legs as your wiping the shit off your head and face, well back to the subject , I had to try desperate measures to get her to do something , so I went to see my mom for the first time in 4 yrs thinking 2 weeks to christmas, when I get back I will go shopping and get the house and everything ready for the holidays , all this after telling the ol lady and kids there wont be a xmas unless i get back and the house is clean , well i had a good visit with mom and sis, 6 hour drive home after driving most the night I pull up in the drive way and go in the house and its still the same shit hole as when i left, well i go in the bedroom to get some sleep and wow how cold can a woman be she gets up and goes to the couch , I got some good sleep till afternoon and then its like this isnt working no more, I tell her we need to talk . Oh yeah the dreadfull talk and coming from a guy to a girl , yeah thats different well to make it short good thing I got some sleep because that was the most and the best sleep I would be having in quite awhile. Well anyways she said to get out so I packed some clothes and slept in my truck for the next few days, went back to try to talk , oh no she just calls the cops, and when you not violent they cant really do anything cuz they see what is really going on, wow she found someone else and this is the only way she can get rid of you. Well the next step is to find a place to sleep , about 9 hour drive to dads house on the coast , thank god im on vacation. well driving back from the coast with 2 of my kids im thinking everything is cooled down and we can talk it out, well hell is not a cold place just she is, I go in the house and she is on the phone with the guy she met online 5 yrs ago not knowing this at the time until later , she call the police again , remember im not a violent person , they show up again and tell me to leave , damn if I leave they could throw me in jail , liscence being suspended and everything, well anyways I jump in the truck and leave telling her I will be back after a few days to get my stuff , go back in a couple of days she is not there so i start packing , putting all the stuff I ever bought her in the truck (you know jewelery and crap)she never deserved. she shows up outside then the cops to boy aint she just wonderful, guess that is what you call a guilty mind, well they tell me to leave again and i do, a few days later i stop by and her and the kids along with alot of stuff in the house is gone , well come to find out this guy she has been talking to came up from Arizona and took her the kids and my dog yeah my dog,MANS best friend, my best friend,well after finding the phone bill and doing some detective work I found them in phoenix after talking to the guy cause the bitch wont talk(guilty again)he told me where they were so I go for a 34 hour round trip drive down and back whoa talk about driving while hallucinating its alright but my kids and dog were sleepin thank god and during a huge winter storm that froze the whole U.S. I had gotten 3 of 4 of my kids back with me , wow now to get the bills caught up and start living again,but the worst thing is I cant find a DAMN DATE again god life is just a little slap in the face.I guess in the game of life nobody really wins.
