well court is over and my lawyer royally screwed me to no end... I told her in pre conference that if the judge wanted to continue being an ass and say that we had been g through this too long and i had to come to an agreement i would settle so we walked into the courtroom and she told the judge right away that i wanteo settle. well the jack ass has since moved to Florida where for 2 weeks in June, 2 weeks in august and eek for teh christmas holiday, and a week for the easter holiday my 13 month old baby has to fly with the inbisil of a sperm donor. He told the court and made it public record that he was moving on the 26th of April so i didnt take Zavyir to that visit. He then called me threatening to take me back to court cause i "screwed him out of his weekend" I offered the following weekend to him but as the weekend fell it was mothers day and that is m holiday so he was to pick him up at 1pm on friday and bring him back to me on Saturday at 6 pm. he then called and said that i had to give him visitation from thrsday to saturday so he could get his full weekend and i refused. I was like 15 minutes away and it was 15 minutes o 1 pm and the jerk called mme and said that he was in florida and he would be home by the end of the weekend. I called my lawyer and asked her how i knew that he had moved and she said by his address and it is in the order that he has to provide me with one and he hasnt. so now i have to take my baby down there and if he doesnt show i dont know if i can go back to court and find him in contempt of the order. We went to child support court on the 14th of this month and surprise surprise he wasnt there now i have to spend the moneyh to have him served and if he doesnt go then i can either have him arrested or i can just win by default. I have been told that if i have him arrested he is juvinile enough to try and do something back to me. so i am just leaning tward the judgement by default. he is going to have to pay my bills from the prenatal visits, the birth, and all the dr's bills from then to now and the future. what he doesnt know is that he is going to haev to pay my sperm donor monthly to reimburse her for the medical she is paying or get a comperable medical coverage.. but wait he cant do that he is a dead beat that doesnt work and lives off his mommy.
