David's blog: "Lessons learned on fubar"

I've only been on fubar a couple of months but in that short period of time I am appalled at how often I encounter men being disrespectful to women. Sure, there are a lot of gorgeous women on this site but you can give compliments without being offensive or sexually explicit. Gentlemen, just think about it. Would you talk to your mother that way? Or would you allow another man to refer to your mother as a cock sucking whore or something worse? If you treat people like you yourself like to be treated and expect the respect of others then  you yourself must treat others with respect. 

Don't get me wrong about this. I am not against cyber sex on cam or on chat but that like sex in real life must be done with someone who gives you consent to do so. I myself have had my dirty chat or two on here but it is always with the consent of the other person I am chatting with. It's fun in my opinion to talk dirty to someone whom you may actually like and truly desire but you must keep in mind that for the most part it is just a fantasy akin to role playing.

Women, don't judge all men based on your bad experiences with jerks on here. Believe it or not I'm sure that for every bad guy on here there are ten good men. I include myself amongst those good men because I respect women in person and online. I try not to have bad experiences with them and keep any and all relationships with them cordial.

Men, just keep in mind that that woman you may be disrespecting is someone mother, sister, aunt, grandmother, etc. Unless she directly gives you permission to talk dirty to her online don't do it. If you want to talk dirty to her just ask or read her profile she might have already mentioned in it her desire to not be approached in such a way. Thanks for reading this and I hope that you may heed my advice. Take care everyone and enjoy yourselves keep it fun and friendly.