Well for anyone that care I am now a single Father. Have a 7 year old daughter and a 5 year old son. My exgf married a guy who raped my daughter multipletime over a two year period before she turned 6, SO had to fight the State of Ohio for them when I live in SOuthern California. So finally received custody in Aug. of 2006. I did not believe I was fully prepaired for them and boy was I right. My work (Viejas Casino) did not believe that becoming asingle father of two abused children was cause to take me off of Graveyard shift, so I had to try and depend on freinds for nighttime child care. Well that did not work out to well and I ended up fired for being one minute late three time in the same pay period. So been out of work for a while. Doing the welfare thing and hating ever second of it. But the welfare to wrok program will pay for daycare for my kids while I go back to school. SO I have my kids and things are starting to work out. Life looks a little better each day but for now still sucks in the ot so good way. I never really get to leave the house except during the four hours my son is in Kindergarden. So if anyone reads this and is in the San Deigo area and does RPGs give me a holler could host a game at my place. Love to everyone who needs it and huds to thosae who need them. Remember life could always be worse.