Maybe it's me but can you make really good friends from the site. Some ladies contact me only to lure me out of fubar and go to a show and tell site with them on display. Other are very impersonal when it comes to chats. Is it all about points and popularity. Some ladies say ask me anything and it will be cool but it's not that way. How many of us know all the friends on here. Is the family stuff for real? How about the marriage stuff? We need to get real!!!