sorry that I showed concern for someone else...I'm not miserable...nor am I anywhere near unhappy...i have a wonderful bf who adores me now...there's no lies...no cheating...no sneaking around...no betrayal...however in the words of Sarah McLaughlin..."I'll leave you with your misery a friend who won't betray..."...however I'll leave you in your tower...where I hope you rot alone and despairing...I won't be looking at your page anymore...have fun in your own personal hell :) Have a terrible lonely life!!