got the papers in the mail....it's finally official I am a free woman YAY me! I will never look back and I don't think that I will ever think of him again iffen I have to...I just feel so liberated and so me on my own again....no answering to someone that didn't have control of me for so long and the kids can finally take a breather knowing that the man they love as dad is gonna finally be around forever!
