I just found out that my boyfriend of 5 years was cheating on me. its been a rough year and i stood by him for all his crap and he goes off to be with someone else with no explanation. he broke up our family and top it off my 4 yr old says to me "daddy needs to marry mommy and i say he doesnt want us and he says we need a new daddy a daddy that loves mommy." how do you comfort a child you understands that!