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Were You Born on a Cusp?

Were You Born on a Cusp? Virgo/Libra September 19 to September 23 Virgo is the sixth sign of the zodiac; Libra is the seventh. Virgo/Libras strive to create balance and harmony between themselves and others. They bring their skills and talents together for the good of others. Despite their inherent modesty, those born on the Virgo/Libra cusp are industrious and efficient when working for a good cause. Objective and just, Virgo/Libras are excellent arbitrators and enjoy lots of friends. The astrological symbol of Virgo is the Virgin; Libra is represented by the Scales. Virgo/Libras abhor unfairness and conflict, striving above all for peace, but at times they are easily deterred from their beliefs. They are able to see all sides of an argument, but as their mental scales sway back and forth, they may never find balance and can become fickle and indecisive. They are skilled at seeing all sides of a situation, which is an expression of Virgo's mutable quality. Virgo/Libras are skilled at initiating group projects. In this way, the cardinal quality of Libra is exemplified. When Virgo/Libras set goals for themselves, they are determined to succeed. This astrological combination tends to be about other people rather than personal development. They are socially inclined and charming, but their focus is about smaller-scale projects and individuals. Because of Virgo's association with individuals and health, and Libra's innate interest in others, many Virgo/Libras are drawn toward careers in medicine. Virgo is ruled by the planet Mercury. In ancient Roman mythology, Mercury (and his Greek equivalent, Hermes) was the messenger god. He was a quick, nervous type, and he was known for his strong reasoning and ability to analyze. Communication is his province. As a planet, Mercury is androgynous. Libra is ruled by the planet Venus. In ancient Roman mythology, Venus (and her Greek equivalent, Aphrodite) was the goddess of love, beauty and pleasure. She represented joy, happiness and appreciation of beautiful things and people. Libra is the masculine, or day, aspect of Venus; Taurus is the feminine, or night aspect. Virgo/Librans are happiest when they're in a relationship. They are seductive and attractive, and their cultural awareness and talkative nature help them shine in the social situations they so enjoy. They tend to explore subjects deeply and are very good at understanding the deeper meaning of what others say. Many Virgo/Libras have an excellent head for business, relying on logic rather than ego or emotion to make their deals. They are reliable, practical, diligent, controlled and rational. The element associated with Virgo is Earth. The element associated with Libra is Air. Virgo/Libras tend to respond to the world with intellect and by examining the worth of each possible response. Their intellectual orientation to the world around them makes them skilled at communication and abstract reasoning, and their intelligence combines with their interest in others to become an intellectual exploration of the people around them. Because of their responsibility and attention to detail, those born on the Virgo/Libra cusp tend to be perfectionists. They may worry about small details, but this is often necessary when attempting to be as fair and diplomatic as possible. They are team workers, skilled at cooperative action, but they can also be self-doubting. Open-minded and always polite, they have a strong sense of loyalty because of their ability to put themselves into the shoes of others. Virgo/Libras love to debate but not to quarrel; a fine distinction that is nonetheless very important. They are kind and considerate, and they rarely display anger. Instead, they may employ subtle means of getting even when their strong sense of fairness and legality, or their refined sensitivities, are violated. They tend to be somewhat health-conscious, which ensures they take good care of themselves and their loved ones. In their leisure time, Virgo/Libras often turn their interest in health into an exercise or fitness program. However, they have a definite lazy streak, preferring to read and go out with friends. Exercise generally appeals to them only if it is effective and allows socializing at the same time. Some have a particular affinity for activities that let them get out in nature, such as hiking and horseback riding. In love relationships, Virgo/Libras are playful, romantic and devoted. The great strength of the Virgo/Libra-born is in their attention to detail and their desire to be of service. They pick up on the little things that most others miss. Their drive for peace and harmony and their ability to obtain balance and cooperation from a disparate group is unparalleled. Their skill at seeing all sides of a situation makes them one of the most just characters of the zodiac. Look at more information about cusps!

I need a man

I need a Real man A man thats not afraid to tell me his feelings A giving man A man who can deal with the big things and lets the small stuff slide An understanding man A man that will take the lead A mans man A man that will make me feel wanted and special A passionate man A man that knows how to treat a woman An Honest man A man that loves women A devoted man A man that wants to be loved A loving man A man who appreciates A generous man A man that doesn't expect A forgiving man A man who loves with his whole heart

I have come to realize...

1. I have come to realize that my butt... Is in a constant state of change 2. I have come to realize that when I talk... People that really love me listen 3. I have come to realize that, if I love someone... They won't necessarily love me back. 4. I have come to realize that, I need... To live my life for me first, then the ones I love. 5. I have come to realize that, I lost... My sanity a long time ago 6. I have come to realize that, I hate it when... People lie 7. I have come to realize that, if I'm drunk... I can easily make a fool of myself 8. I have come to realize that, marriage. Can only work if both people are willing to work at it and give 150%. 9. I have come to realize that, work… Sucks 10. I have come to realize that, I will always be... Responsible for my own behavior, no matter the situation 11. I have come to realize that, I LOVE… With all my heart, and sometimes it will get broken 12. I have come to realize that, the last time I cried was... The best thing for me at the time 13. I have come to realize that, my cell phone is... Pretty kewl 14. I have come to realize that, when I wake up in the morning... I really don't wanna get up 15. I have come to realize that, before I go to sleep at night... It might take me a while to fall asleep 16. I have come to realize that, right now I am thinking about.... How much longer it is till 5, so I can get started on some homework 17. I have come to realize that, babies... Are still possible for me, I just have to be patient 18. I have come to realize that, when I get on Myspace... I dont have any messages! 19. I have come to realize that, today I will... be at work until 5... 20. I have come to realize that, tonight I will... Work on homework again... 21. I have come to realize that, tomorrow I will... go to work again.... 22. I have come to realize that, I really want to... Take a nap right now 23. I have come to realize that, working out... is just something I have to do 24. I have come to realize that, my friends… are the best and they will be here for me through thick and thin. 25. I have come to realize that, LOVE... Hurts 26. I have come to realize that, the person who might repost this is… Who knows??
Ah, a sigh of relief. I finally got everything straight and I am registered for a full load for next term. Shoosh. I seriously don't have any luck what-so-ever with Georgia colleges. I would blame it on bad luck, but I don't believe in luck really. Karma I do believe in, but not luck. This week has been a bit stressful. Kevin asked for a divorce. I told him he hadn't earned the right to ask for one, since he is the one doing all the online cheating. But no matter. His father says he will change his mind when he gets back and everything will be back to normal. Can you really get back to "normal" after going thru something so heartbreaking. I feel like he has given up. Actually, I felt like he gave up a long time ago. He has always been the kind of guy that if, lets say something broke, like a TV... he would go buy a new one for $500 even if he found out it would only cost $150 to get the old one fixed. I guess our relationship is broken and now he's out shopping for a new one. It sucks being in limbo, not knowing what will happen next. It pisses me off to no end, not only the betrayal, but the lies. He has lied to me since the day we met. He lied about being an Honorable man. I told him I didn't like fake people, that I wanted someone that would be able to stick it out no matter what, that I wanted someone who would be true and honest. That communication was the key to a good relationship. He told me what he thought I wanted to hear... and that in my book is the lowest of low. To lie, cheat, decieve, but I'm here now. I don't want to throw in the towel, but I don't want to be with a man I can't trust either. He's not talking to me again. Thats par for the course these days.

Drama

So I guess you could say I have some drama going on in my life right now. Well that would probably be an understatement, but what can you do? Life is full of the unexpected... I guess It just hit me aweful hard when I found out my Husband is not the faithful man I thought he was. I found out recently that he has been on a Singles site, chatting up the girly types and leaving comments about how he wants to "Do" them. Not my idea of acceptable behavior for a 37 yr old married man. We've been down this road before, He was deployed in 2005 and I found out after he returned home, that he had a couple of "girlfriends" online. That he had exchanged nude photographs with them, and was planning to meet up with one of them after he got home. Well, I am an only child, and I don't share well with others.... I flipped out. I NEVER in 10 million years thought the man I married would betray me like that. We were still newlyweds. It just didn't seem real. But I decided that I made a commitment, for better or worse, so we did a little counseling. I worked on our relationship for the next year, things got better each day, or so I thought. He deployed again, Jan 07, didn't have internet access till July 07... the same day he got the internet hooked up... he created his Myspace and started making new friends. I can deal with friends. But the nude pis and the plans to "hook up" thats just all a bit much. What is a girl to do. Every day I find a little bit more, I can't make any major decisions or even try and have a decent conversation with him while he's over there. He won't call... he hates the phone, and you can't have a heart to heart over IM. Sigh.... whats a girl to do?
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