Jesus warns us not to judge others by our own standards, because we will be judged by God in the same way. He also tells us to examine ourselves before we criticize others, and to remove the beam from our own eye before we point out the speck in our brother's eye (Matthew 7:3-5 KJV)2.
Our brains and psyche are made to judge...it is a defense mechanism.
People say "Dont judge." but its foolish not to judge. If not we end up in bad situations. However, when we do judge be completely fair using the highest of standards which would be of a more Spiritual plain: using good moral and scrupulous and honest measure as God would. So then when we are judged God will show us the same. God loves us all...no matter what...He provided us w a way back to Himself. Through the sacrifice of His Son...