Well, I have been here a few days now and I am enjoying my time here.
I like a lot of aspects about the site, but I do wish it had some of the similar games/ratings/etc. that XuQa has, but at least I don't feel out of place age wise here - since XuQa is meant for the 18-23ish crowd.
I haven't figured out how to get into all the big graphics that people use, but I actually think some of them are rather impersonal and people just throw them up as comments instead of taking time to really type out messages.
I'll add in more thoughts as they come to me...