I have been a member of fubar a short time and joined a few of these so called lounges. What I have observed is that it does not matter if it is in the real or the cyber world if one is an outsider one is treat with disrespect for speaking their mind even when askrd, or they are ignored completely in hopes that they will leave. Should they say something that someone in the click disagrees with one can see the pack mentality come out to defend their group member even they are wrong. For someplace that is preaching to be yourself and have fun it is is more like the real world than they care too think creating groups of people who are shunded if they don't conform too the the pack mentality. More observations too come......................