Love is hard and when you have problems with someone like your kids, it is even harder. I know that most of you do not know me but I have unconditional love and God is my number one. Well I received a devasting blow tonight by my 17 year old son. Mothers, it is hard when your son takes up for his gf that he has only known 4 days instead of you and when the gf puts you down and he does not take up for you.