My g/f broke up with me a month ago. She said she has some shit she needed to work out. She started hangin out with this girl who's 19. She said they were only friends who had similar issues and that's why she's hanging out with her. I knew in my heart there was something else going on but I gave her the benefit of the doubt (well, kinda).Anyway, all these little clues are leading me to believe otherwise. About two weeks after we broke up (oh did i mention we live together...so much fun and she's my best friend too..double whammy)she tells me the real reason she broke up with me is cuz she fell out of love with me months ago and she started to have feelings for the 19 yr old (which I knew in my gut). I approached the 19 yr old and asked her what and if anything was going on and she replied "we're just talking". I go on vacation for a week and when I come home I find out that they have been hooking up since they day after I left for vacation and they stayed in my house on MY BED! Now technically I wasn't cheated on since we were already broken up but I did ask both of them if anything was goin on and i was told no and my g/f kept telling me it was all in my head to the point where I thought I was going insane. So now they are dating and I am trying to find a way to be okay with it or at least deal with it. If my ex were anyone else I would've cut ties all together but because she started out as my b/f I am trying to at least repair the frienship. I have been asked repeatedly by my ex why I am having such a hard time with them dating since I told her if "the whore" was in her life I couldn't be even just as a friend. Reason being I have no respect for this girl for lying not just to me but to all her other friends plus I believe she is vindictive and deceitful and it's making me not wanna be friends with someone who can continue to date them. I know I sound like the jealous ex but it's not about that at least not anymore. I've come to the realization we will never be together again and frankly I don't wanna be if she can't get her shit together. I'm just trying to be a friend. She jumps into relationships blind and never sees what's in front of her (good or bad). Most people would say "Fuck it, she screwed you over. What do you care". And maybe I shouldn't but I do. Anyway the point of this boring story is no matter how much you think the truth may hurt someone, it will hurt a million times worse if you lie and get caught later on.
