Women need to understand that men and women view sex differently. With women sex is associated with emotions while with men it can be either emotional or just physical. Women tend to associate sex with love while men are able to either combine the two or keep them seperate.
Women who are sexually free should not be considered ho's. The definition of a ho is someone who has sex for monetary gain. There are a lot of women who wait for a man to spend money and take them to expensive places before they give up the cooch. That is monetary gain. The cooch was given to women free of charge so why do a lot of women charge for it. Why give in to society's stigma and pressure saying that it is mandatory to wait at least three months before indulging? If a just wants sex from you then he will wait to get it and all that does is make you more upset because you had false hope of a relationship and you used all that time denying yourself and getting feelings for this person.It's your coocchie! Use it when you feel like it.
Another point. Women ,please stop trying to train your man. He is not a dog, so quit trying to use sex as a reward or as a weapon. It only creates dissent and improves the likelihood of him cheating.Most men will accept you for all your flaws so accept us as we are.