So I've noticed in the past couple of days that a couple of friends on Myspace, (I have to go there since Allstate blocked me from here..bastards) have written blogs bitching about men. On one of these blogs a comment was made about stop worrying so much about men and concentrate on yourself. I found that to be very true. I've said it before and I'll say it again, if you don't love yourself how do you expect someone else to love you? I mean seriously, if I didn't like myself I wouldn't expect Prince Charming to like me either.
I've been single for a long time, and I really don't mind it. Do I get lonely? Sure. Do I wallow in my own self pity because I'm single? Nope. The difference between being happy to be single and being depressed about it is wanting a man and needing a man. I don't NEED a man to make me happy or to complete me. I'm a happy and complete person on my own. Sure, I've been known to cry on my pillow and rage about the injustices of bitchy, clingy, whiny psycho women having a boyfriend when myself and my sane BFF's are still single. Do I let it bog me down enough to want to slit my wrists and think that if only I had a man I'd be happy? Hell no!
So I say to you dear sisters, if you're single, revel in it. Eat peanut butter straight out of the jar, eat cereal for dinner if you want, don't get out of your pajamas all weekend, don't do your makeup, don't fix your hair, don't do your nails, Hell don't even shave your legs if you don't want to! It's YOUR life, do what makes YOU happy. Learn to be happy by yourself....then maybe just maybe...your Prince will find you and you won't NEED him to sweep you off your feet, just need him to help sweep!
