Why is it, I only seem to find the guys who are either big fat egotistical assholes or big fat immature assholes... ? I'm not too happy with where i'm at in my life I AM happy that I have my kids though. I just wish the 'whatever you wanna call him' mans up and decides to finally be a dad and a fiancee. And help me... I feel like a flippin single mom. I do everything on my own. Except spend money. He's got that well taken care of. GRRR, I know I can do better for myself, even if it means being single the rest of my life, but I don't want to take the kids away from their dad. Oh, I dont know what to do... well I DO know what I should do, but getting there is the problem. Deep down, I hope he will just wake up one morning and POOF magically be a resposible adult.