recently an old flame contacted me after searching facebook for me. We dated 6 yrs ago but lost contact after a while. He messaged me asking me how i was and at first i couldnt put a face to a name but after looking at his pictures i realized who it was *fred*. Well him and i got talking about life and what has gone on since we lost touch. When talking i could tell there was something he wanted to say but was holding back, I kept on asking every so often if there was something wrong. he finally gave in and said that he didnt think that it was just a crush when we dated, he had thought about me and held on to how he felt about me till now. we dated back when i was 17 and he was 16.
He was a gentleman even at 16, he brought me flowers when we went out and listened to what i had to say. Now years later he is the same hansome and charming as he was then. He's thinking about moving down here to see where this could go. I still care about him alot. *Fred* was the best thing for me back then but we lost eachothers numbers and lived 45 mins away from each other.
HE makes me laugh and he makes me happy when we talk, But I am not single which is where I became confused. im not a cheater nor will i start. But me and my current boyfriend have been haveing problems for sometime. He cheated on me for a month and a half with another woman. and talked about having children with her even tho i was pregnant by him and he said he didnt want a child.
He raggs on me for not trusting him. But how can i trust him? My life was a lie for almost 2 months.
But we have been together 9 months, friends for a yr before started dating. I love my current boyfriend but at present time with *fred* coming back into my life and with my boyfriend say either get over me cheating or dump me I really am not sure what to do...trust my brain or my heart?
Anyone willing to share some advice id be happy to listen...
