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created on 01/06/2007  |  http://fubar.com/thoughts/b41755

IF A MAN WANTS YOU

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man wasn;t treating you as you deserve then heck no you can't be friends! A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better". You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've gotten a bunch of children by a bunch of women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends seperate from his. Maintain boundries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, SPEAK UP! Never let a man know everything. HE will use it against you later. You cannot changa a man's behaviour. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even of he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man; nothing more; nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. Oh Lord! If he cheated WITH you, he'll cheat ON you! A man will only treat you the way YOU allow him to treat you. All men ARE NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage...deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of TWO whole individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you someyimes...when a man always knows where you are, and you're always readily to him...he takes it for granted. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know each other. Share this with other ladies...You'll make soemone SMILE, another RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE. They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them. Pass this along...it was written by a man so take a hint!!!

The mirror of my past

The mirror of my past The mirror of my past is full of shadows and fears It reflects a life that was wasted by depression and tears All the self-pity that one miserable life can have Wallowing, suffocating, drowning in the past Holding onto a sorrow that won’t let me go It was the most comfortable me that I know Climbing, reaching, scratching my way out Clawing my way through all the jungle of doubt Somebody help me! My god, where are you?! I can’t do this on my own! O god! What do I do? I’m tired of crying. I’m sick of those fears My guilt has plagued my life for too many years I need to change. I need to get well I need to get myself out of this hell! I don’t want to be that woman that I was back then I’m ready for that new life to begin I can’t do the same things that I did When I screamed and ran and cried and hid I must stand and face the world without fear To walk the steps of advice that I hear Yeah, I’ll get frustrated and I’ll probably cry But I won’t give up any more but continue to try The mirror of my past is full of shadows and fears And I have suffered so long for so many years But there is a brighter future I’ve never known before And I have hope for tomorrow and too much to live for 2/4/04

The Sacred Rac

an indian anthropologist, chandra thapar, made a study of foreign cultures which had customs similar to those of his native land. One culture in particular fascinated him because it reveres one animal as sacred, much as in india reveres the cow. The things he discovered might interest you. the tribe dr thapar studies id called the asu and is found on the american continent north of the tarahumara of mexico. though it seems to be a highly developed society of its tyoe, it has as overwhelming preoccupation with the care and feeding of the rac- an animal much like a bull in size, strength and temperment. in the asu tribe, it is almost a sociable obligation to own at least one if not more racs. anyone notpossessing at least one is held in low esteem by the community because he is too poor to maintain ine of these beasts properly. some members of the tribe to display their wealth and social prestige even own herds of racs. Unfortunately the rac breed is not very healthy and usually does not live more than five to seven years. Each family invests large amounts of money each year to keep its rac healthy and shod for it has a tendency to throw its shoes often. there are rac specialists in each community, perhaps more than one if the community is particulary wealthy. these specialists however, due to the long period of ritual training they must undergo and to the difficulty of obtaining the right selection of charms to treat the rac, demand costly offerings whenever a tribesman must treat his ailing rac. At the age of 16 in manyasu communities, many youths undergo a puberty right in which the rac figures prominently. the youth must petition a high priest in a grand temple. he is then initiated into the ceremony that surrounds the care of the rac and its permitted to keep a rac. Although the rac may be used as a beast of burden, it has many habits which would be considered by other cultures as detrimental to the life of the society. in the first place, the rac breed isincreasing at a very rapid rate and the asu tribesmen have given no thought to curbing the rac population. as a consequence the asu must build more and more paths for the rac to travel on sonce it delicate hea;th and its love of racing other rac at high speeds neccessitates that special areas be set aside for its use. the cost of smoothing the earth is too costly for any one individual to undertake, so it has become a community project and each tribesmen must pay an annual tax to build new paths and maintain the old. there are so many paths needed that some people move their homes because the rac paths must be as straight as possible to keep the animal from injuring itself. dr thapar also noted that unlike the cow,which many people in his country hold sacred, the excrement of the rac cannot be used as either fuel or fertilizer. on the contrary, its excrement is exceptionally foul and totally useless. worst of all, the rac is prone to rampages in which it runs down anything in its path, much like stampeding cattle. estimates are that the rac kills thousands of the asu in a year. Despite the high cost of its upkeep, the damage it does to the land, and its habit of destructive rampages, the asu still regard it as being essential to the survival of their culture.
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