KiLLifffer's blog: "TRUTH"

I posted this on Facebook but wanted to share..

So.. I want to talk about fat girls. Yea, I said it. Fat girls. I'm allowed to do that. I am one. Don't get on my shit and tell me otherwise. Bitch please, I am a size 22 and rock the fuck out of it. Angles baby..I hide my double chin well.

 Here is the thing. Women come in so many shapes and sizes. We are all different. Yet, the fat girl is labeled the ugly one, the nasty one. All because of her size. I have seen it time and time again. Man and woman like each other, maybe even have feelings involved. There's just one catch. He is ashamed of her because she is a fat girl. He wants to tell his friends about her.

"Tell me about your new girlfriend."

"oh, she's awesome. she's cute and funny as hell" .. except.. she's fat.

The new gf meets friends/ family. Later she gets broken up with because of comments people make. They dont want to be ridiculed for being with a fat girl.

She's not a "trophy wife" or barbie doll. I cant tell you how many times i have been friend zoned because someone didnt have the balls to tell me they didnt want to date me because of my size. Why is it a secret? Why are you ashamed to love a plus sized woman?

We have SO many qualities.

I do anyway.

I am smart and not just mediocre smart. I am intelligent as hell, and I know it. I am independent, and I have a huge heart. I am domesticated. I cook. I clean. I enjoy doing things. I also enjoy doing absolutely nothing. I work my ass off. I believe in family and love children. I think I have a pretty decent face, and I have exceptional breasts. I am well groomed, clean as fuck, and I smell goooooood. Yet, I am made to be uncomfortable in my own skin out of fear of not being loved because of my size. I am quick to push people away for fear of being hurt.

HOWEVER, there is another kind of fat girl too.The one that doesnt take care of herself and is just gross. As a plus size woman, you HAVE to take care of yourself. We already have to set the bar high because of the way we have been portrayed by society. Step up your games! Fix your hair, wear clothes that accentuate your nice features. RESPECT yourselves! Show some modesty and class. You can wear your pajamas to the dollar store if you want to but for fucks sake, at least put on a damn bra. Love yourselves. We are all beautiful in our own ways. I'm a mother fucking diamond. Bet that.

The next time you see a plus size woman, instead of acting like she grosses you out, try complimenting her in some way.. I challenge you. Better yet.. I DARE YOU.