Can someone help me understand why guys bother to get into relationships? I've been in 3 serious relationships and dated my fair share of guys and it seems to me like there is not a single man out there who appreciates a good woman when he has one! How many women reading this do right by their man, and don't get shit in return? And how many of you have been cheated on, or had their heart broken, after you've given someone your ALL? IMHO men seem to want one thing at almost any cost---sex.
I mean seriously, at the moment I am in a relationship...I do everything for this man. He has his dinner ready almost every night, I take care of the baby, my older son and many days his kid from a previous relationship, clean up after him , do the yardwork, pay the bills, take the garbage out, hell I even clean out HIS car after he trashes it all week! What do I get in return?
You guessed it. A big fat nothing. He thinks that I should be happy with just his paycheck. I shouldn't expect romance, or us time, or anything else out of him. And heaven forbid he be affectionate! Mind ou I have been through hell with this man, he cheated on me with his ex gf, broke up with me for an online whack job, and dated someone else while I was pregnant...
Wow as I write that I see how bad it really looks. I've been told that if I can't let these things go that it's never going to work between us but...I love him. I don't want for anything as far as money goes. He doesn't care if I go out or to the bar. But I really feel like there's got to be something more than just this...
Am I crazy? Do I expect too much? Is it really asking a lot to want your man to touch you and be affectionate, maybe surprise you with flowers once in a while? Too much to expect him to be faithful (especially since I have been)? He's on this Fubar thing too. And at first he was just adding random chicks, ok that's no big deal plus they all look nasty as hell...but lately I see he's added girls from our area.
Now to me that makes me wonder what the hell is going on in his mind...looking for local women like that...it's one thing to maybe have a little dirty talk with women you will never meet, but to me it makes me think he's getting that little seed of an idea in his head, that he can go get a little booty and I'll never know the difference. But you know what?
IT'S MY TURN
