why do women like guys till they find out they have kids? what make children such a turn off that women dont want nothing to do with you? just wondering every time i talk to a woman its all happy go lucky but then when the kids are mentioned the switch is flipped. what is this? the way i see it though is my kids are my life and anyone that knows me knows this. i am a package deal and they are the package. what is wrong with a father be just that? a father? i mean alot of these guyare making babies and leaving them before they are born, but a man that wnt to be in their kids life and wants to be a dad has to be lonley with out companionship, ohhhh well its worth the sacrifice to be my kids dad and not put them through another fucked up relationship.