How can a man really expect a woman to wait around for him? Knowing very well that the woman has feelings for him that are strong and unwavering. He says that he loves her and misses her only to tell his previous ex the same thing.
OK so here's the story: I dated this guy for over 2 years. HE lied to his friends and family about our relationship because he was afraid of commitment and was afraid of his feeling s for me.... well that is what he says... However he has done this with all his ex's I was just the worst case. His parents think I am addicted to Meth and other drugs.... which I am not. His friends are under the impression that I was physically and mentally abusive during the relationship and caused him to become depressed and reserved. He was depressed when I met him and he continued to be that way. No matter what I did to try to help it just got worse. He would just snap at me and treat me like I was a huge pain in the ass. I tried to talk to him, I tried to talk to his friends... I tried to get some handle on the situation only to realize that no matter how much I loved this man he wouldn't mature. He would stay in this world he has created filled with lies and fantasy.
Yet no matter how much of the facts I know I still love him and desire him in more ways then just sexually. He makes me feel things that no other man has done.
I don't know what to do besides what I am doing now. Not allowing him to disrespect me... not allowing him to use me... not allowing him to manipulate me like he used to. I am standing my ground and being the strong person I am. Allowing myself to be who I am and not letting him change me like he did before.
He knows I still have feelings for him but he seems to be using that and not respecting it. How can I express this to him without being a bitch??
