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Characteristics of Abusive Men
ControlControl is the "overarching behavioural characteristic" of abusive men, achieved with criticism, verbal abuse, financial control, isolation, cruelty, etc. (see Power & Control Wheel). The need to control may deepen over time or escalate if a woman seeks independence (e.g. going to school).
EntitlementEntitlement is the "overarching attitudinal characteristic" of abusive men, a belief in having special rights without responsibilities, justifying unreasonable expectations (e.g., family life must centre on his needs). He will feel the wronged party when his needs are not met and may justify violence as self-defence.
Selfishness & Self-centrednessAn expectation of being the centre of attention, having his needs anticipated. May not support or listen to others.
SuperiorityContempt for woman as stupid, unworthy, a sex object or as a house keeper.
PossessivenessSeeing a woman and his children a
