June 4, 2008 @ 2:40 pm # of
Ok.. The fact that a lot of you say you have to "train" a man, is absurd. Its all about how they were brought up. Why are some men afraid of commitment or feelings? Hell if i know. Most of the women I know are scared of that kind of thing. So what now? They're insecure. Ever think they maybe they think youre just saying that to get close to them cuz youre going to hurt them? I allow myself to get close to anyone. Life's too short for regrets. Now trusting someone is a WHOLE different ballgame!
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Let me start at the begining of this comment and work down.
You just proved that a woman does train a man. It may not be the woman he is with, but if his upbringing did it then he would have been trained by a woman,,,his mother.
Men can be afraid for any number of reasons. Just as women can. The human interaction between man and woman seems to be full of fear from childhood till adult hood.
Life is too short for regrets. So be happy. Live life, make mistakes, dont take baby steps. If you do you will get nowhere fast, and somewhere way to slow.
You are so right with trusting being a whole different ball game.
It used to be I gave trust to start and you could loose it if you did something, now it seems it has to be earned from the start.
I guess it is too many life lessons learned.