relliK's blog: "Why"

It's a good question I always seem to ask myself when a situation turns cold or sour. Here's the situation...I meet a girl, treat her nice, cook her food, clean all dishes used, kind and humble to her friends..only to have that girl tell some other guy over the phone how she loves, cares, and would do ANYTHING for HIM while I'm next to her. Like seriously..what's up with that? Now I know most of you ladies have ALOT more sense than the ones who are utterly waterheaded (like some women on here I know), but what bothers me the most about this situation, is she (or they for that matter) would do this everytime I am near or if I get close to them as if I was never there to hear it. Now ladies, IF what you're looking for is a one-night stand or just a 'sport/revenge f**k', then by ALL means..tell me in advance so I can avoid you at all costs. I went out of my way to see this girl one day after talking to her for MONTHS and it was like we instantly clicked when I showed up..then LITERALLY 24 hours after being with her..she tossed me to the curb like I was a piece of sh*t and instantly bragged about being stalked by a random dude who gave her flowers once a week..Ladies if you want flowers THAT BAD..date a damn florist. ANYWAYS, they talked on the phone for hours leaving me to find out the hard way that I was just there to be used to get to this 'other guy'. Ladies, I love ALL of you no matter what you look like, what race you are, your age, how tall/short you are..I mean c'mon, nobody is perfect..hell I'm no 'superstud'..just an average guy with everything to lose and almost nothing to gain, but if you were EVER mistreated in your life by an ex..PLEASE do not take it out on me as if it was my fault that you're so f**ked up. Now I admit, I do not have any 'game', I lack 'dress to impress' skills, I flirt (sometimes too much for my own good), but that does not justify you to treat me like sh*t and ditch me for a guy who more than likely would kick your ass or cheat on you in a heartbeat if you don't sexually service him right. If for some reason you only like/want me as a friend, then I got no time for you whatsoever because I'm in WAY TOO MANY friendzones as it is and DO NOT wish to be a member of yours.